Monday, April 13, 2009

SURPRISE *** updated

These were just delivered to my office along with a bottle of Chianti...


I'm all about grand gestures people but this seems like a lot from someone who I've never seen in person before (This is not from ShyGuy). Am I being a priss or is this borderline creepy?

Updated - The guy who sent these to me, we had only talked via match. He did not have my personal email or my cell phone. I did tell him my name and mentioned that I work for the University doing blah blah blah. From that he found me. I talked to Ex about it and asked if I was being too sensitive and he said "It depends." Helpful right? So, when I got home I emailed the guy and told him that I received his gift. I said that the flowers were beautiful and that I would surely enjoy the wine. However, I was more than a little uncomfortable with his forward move considering our lack of interaction. He was apologetic. He said he'd slow down. Then he asked me to dinner. - I was shocked. Too fast buddy. After today, much too fast. I said no. He got irritated. I told him not to contact me again.

Buh Bye CreepyStalkerMan.

P.S. I'm still going to enjoy the wine!



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7 comments:

Christy said...

Go with your gut - do not go out with this guy. If you don't keep the flowers you could donate them to a hospital or nursing home!

Stacie's Madness said...

so in one post you don't want the pushover guy, but you don't want an overly pushy one either.

lmao.

I agree with Christy, go with your gut...

SP said...

Yeah, I'm a regular Goldielocks.

Carissa(GoodnCrazy) said...

SORRY! Could be the one who got away?? Maybe not.. HOW the heck to know huh??

Stacie's Madness said...

ROFLMAO...."GOLDIELOCKS"

Deb on the Rocks said...

Sorry! I think you are right. He's at least a premature ejaculator.

There has GOT to be a middle ground, Goldie.

Miss Awesome said...

They are very beautiful flowers though lol.