Discernment Fail

The guitar guy - The one I just said wasn't... I mean, that we weren't whatever we once were anymore - I came to this conclusion based on an email conversation we had where he cancelled our mini-vacation complete with a hottub and fireplace hotel room! Who cancels on that unless you are totally NOT into the other person? I was completely convinced. As my kids used to say when they still had a pile of peas on their plate that they were not about to let pass their lips - Aaaaaahl dun.

It turns out that I was as wrong as they (my kids, remember the peas story I just told you? Stick with me people) were. I got an email from him a couple nights ago saying he missed me and was hoping he could make the cancellation up to me.
And I was all - WTF??? No Way!!!

And then I remembered that picture he sent me and I thought...

Of course this SassyWasWrong realization happened after I decided to re-do a mistake I made a few months ago. And by that I mean that I got more than a little bit inebriated and fell into bed with The Captain... again. And I swear to Margaret Thatcher that I did NOT see that coming when we decided to meet for drinks. The problem with me and The Captain (if you can call it a problem) is that we really are great friends that just click so damn easily, we trust each other and the chemistry is sizzlin'. ---- Friends, easy, trust, sizzlin = Problem? It just makes it way to easy to slide back into each other (heh). Besides, who am I to turn down a no-strings-attached orgasm. That would be wasteful and being wasteful is irresponsible.

Justification is my friend

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Sassy Judgement Fail