I think I missed that memo

Since when does being friends with a man mean that if you say no when he asks you out on a date that you were leading him on? Seriously, what the hell is up with that. Between 2 men who felt my friendship meant I had to date them to a guy who felt like I owed him a second date even though the first was not good. Take note gents, we don't OWE you anything on or before the first date. Hell, other than being kind, honest and respectful, we don't owe you anything at all, no matter how many dates it has been.